Who Gets Custody of Adopted Children During Divorce?

Divorce can be an emotionally and legally complex process, particularly when children are involved. For parents of adopted children, the custody battle may raise unique legal questions and concerns. At Orlando Family Team, we understand that adopted children are just as much a part of the family as biological children, and their well-being is the top priority in custody decisions. But who gets custody of an adopted child during a divorce? Understanding how Florida law applies to these cases can help parents prepare for what lies ahead.

How Florida Courts Determine Custody of Adopted Children

Under Florida law, adopted children are treated no differently than biological children in custody disputes. This means that when parents divorce, the court follows the same standard in determining custody: the best interests of the child.

The court considers several factors to decide custody arrangements, including:

  • The emotional bond between the child and each parent.
  • Each parent’s ability to provide a stable home environment.
  • The child’s adjustment to their home, school, and community.
  • The moral and financial fitness of each parent.
  • Each parent’s willingness to foster a healthy relationship between the child and the other parent.
  • Any history of domestic violence, neglect, or abuse.

The goal is to ensure that the custody arrangement serves the child’s best interests and maintains stability in their life as much as possible. Florida law prioritizes shared parental responsibility whenever possible, meaning that courts often aim to provide both parents with meaningful involvement in their child’s life. However, in cases where shared custody is not in the child’s best interests, courts may award one parent sole custody.

Special Considerations in Adopted Child Custody Cases

While adopted children are treated the same as biological children under the law, some unique factors can come into play in custody cases:

Pre-Adoption Agreements

Some adoptive parents enter into pre-adoption agreements that outline expectations regarding custody in the event of a divorce. While such agreements may not be legally binding, courts may consider them part of their decision-making process. These agreements may include parenting responsibilities, decision-making authority, and financial obligations, which can influence the court’s ruling on custody and parental responsibilities.

Biological Family Involvement

In most cases, adoption legally severs ties between the child and their biological family. However, if the adoption involves an open adoption agreement that includes biological family visitation rights, the court may consider how divorce impacts those arrangements. If maintaining contact with biological relatives is in the best interest of the child, courts may factor this into the custody arrangement, though the primary focus remains on the adoptive parents’ ability to provide a stable environment.

Parental Fitness and Stability

If one parent played a more active role in the adoption process or in raising the child, the court may weigh that in their decision. Stability is a key factor, especially for children who have already experienced disruptions in their early lives. Courts may consider which parent has been the primary caregiver and who can provide the most consistent and nurturing environment for the child moving forward.

Child’s Preference

In some cases, particularly when the adopted child is older, the court may take the child’s preference into consideration. If the child expresses a strong desire to live with one parent over the other, the judge may weigh this opinion alongside other relevant factors when making a final custody determination.

Can One Parent Lose Custody Rights to an Adopted Child?

Custody disputes involving adopted children follow the same legal framework as other custody cases. However, in extreme cases, one parent could lose custody rights. If a parent is deemed unfit due to neglect, abuse, substance abuse, or an inability to provide for the child’s needs, the court may award sole custody to the other parent. 

Additionally, if one parent was not legally recognized as an adoptive parent (e.g., in cases of single-parent adoptions or step-parent adoptions where only one spouse adopted the child), that parent may not have custody rights. In such situations, establishing legal parental rights before divorce proceedings is critical. If a non-adoptive step-parent has formed a strong parental bond with the child, they may seek visitation rights, but they are unlikely to be granted legal custody unless a formal adoption has taken place.

Legal Modifications to Custody Agreements

Like all custody agreements, custody arrangements for adopted children may require modifications over time. If one parent’s circumstances change significantly, such as relocation, a change in financial stability, or evidence of an unsafe home environment, the other parent may petition for a custody modification. Courts will reassess the arrangement based on what remains in the child’s best interests.

How Orlando Family Team Can Help

Navigating custody disputes involving adopted children requires experienced legal guidance. At Orlando Family Team, we are dedicated to helping parents protect their relationships with their children while advocating for the best possible custody arrangement. Whether you are seeking a fair custody arrangement, modifying an existing order, or dealing with unique adoption-related custody concerns, our team is here to help. Contact us today to discuss your case and explore your legal options.

About the Author
Andrew Nickolaou, Esq., B.C.S., is a founding partner at Bernal-Mora & Nickolaou, P.A. He practices almost exclusively in divorce, marital and family law. Andrew and his partner, Ophelia Bernal-Mora, Esq., B.C.S., joined forces in March 2016 to form the unique and boutique husband and wife family law team at Bernal-Mora & Nickolaou, P.A. Together, Andrew and Ophelia take a practical and team-based approach to all of their cases and clients to deliver the highest quality experience and representation.